I can’t believe that we are in the home stretch! It’s 48 days until the official “due date”…and it completely and utterly boggles my mind!
Admittedly, stress is high. I’m worried things will fall through, worried that something will happen, worried about becoming a parent…pretty much worried about everything you could think of. I’m trying not to let it sully these coming weeks, but I have a feeling the next month is going to DRAG on forever.
The nursery is done. We’ve been working on other house repairs in the hopes of getting all the big stuff completely before the baby is born. It’s been a long process, but we’re at the tail end, so that is comforting!
Otherwise, we’re just waiting! I feel like the wait is nearly at an end, but I’m also somewhat scared to get too excited. It’ll definitely be an interesting month and a half!
When J and I first started talking about nursery stuff, one of the things everyone recommended was a recliner to sit in for feedings, readings, sleeping, etc. Neither J or I are being recliner people…we’ve never had one and haven’t really missed it any. However, we ARE both huge IKEA people…and our house is a good testament to that! One of our favorite chairs in our house is our POANG chair that’s in our living room. Honestly, I could sit in that thing for hours on end (and J DOES sit in it for hours on end), because it’s incredibly comfortable. I like the bounce that it has from the leg design, and it’s great for just bouncing/rocking while watching TV.
So…we got a POANG chair for the nursery too! I put it together a few weeks ago and the cats have been exploring it (like they do everything), but from the beginning I was a bit “meh” over the covers that IKEA currently have in stock. Nothing really stood out to me, so I just got the boring beige cover that was the cheapest and vowed to recover it myself. Because, you know…I don’t have enough projects.
The fabric has changed multiple times throughout the nursery planning (including this GORGEOUS floral fabric that I bought and stashed away for when baby girl is a bit older), but I finally settled on a turquoise arrow fabric that plays off the wall decal that we have on the wall behind the crib. I settled in and read some blog tutorials on how to recover the chair, and it seemed fairly easy! Two yards of wide (54″) home decor fabric, a few sewed seams, and voila! This was my first attempt, and when I do it again next time with different fabric, I’m sure I’ll make some changes to the design of the cover, but overall I’m pleased with the results!
The nursery is really coming together! All we have left to do is get a dresser set up and then I think we’ll be finished! 10 weeks to go…counting down!
The nursery has been a source of such excitement (and sometimes despair) over the past month or so. Before we even decided on adoption, we had painted the nursery, along with my craft room, a neutral grey. It’s a very light grey, so it was easily considered “gender neutral.” Then as the adoption wait continued, we decided on colors, rather than a theme: Navy, Turquoise, and Grey. Colors that would work well with either a boy or a girl (and I do love a good Navy color!).
Then, a few weeks ago, the anatomy scan revealed that our Expecting Mother was having a baby girl, and all good plans went by the wayside! I won’t lie, I had a moment of insanity where I wanted to scrap all the plans that we’d put in place for the nursery and start over with a blank slate…well, not blank, but a slate full of lush floral patterns, deep purples and hazy greys…and J immediately was having none of it.
Thankfully, cooler heads prevailed (especially before I tossed everything we’d already bought for the nursery) and I got back on track. We looked far and wide for the right decal to put on the wall…something that brought out our love of travel and adventure, and something that would take up a fair amount of space on the wall. We finally found one we both liked on Etsy, and last night we put it up on the wall!
It’s only a small start, but we have until June to make the room perfect. I’ve been enjoying the slow process of putting it all together!
It’s crazy how my posts have taken such a turn…from counting down the months waiting for a match, to counting down the days until the baby is here!
Last week was the anatomy scan (which was quite the ordeal, in and of itself), and we were THRILLED to hear that the baby was doing very well, growing on schedule and looking perfect. Our expecting mother also told us that the baby is a GIRL!!! We are absolutely THRILLED to welcome a daughter into our family!
Our expecting mother is also doing well, but found out that she has a condition that could result in the need for a C-section instead of a vaginal birth. We’re hoping things clear up and she is able to continue with the vaginal birth, but as long as she’s healthy and happy with the care she’s receiving, we’re completely fine with however this turns out. She’s such a sweet and caring person, and we really care about how she’s doing and making sure she’s feeling happy and well taken care of.
We’re looking to make a visit to see her soon, hopefully mid-march. She’d like to do a walk-through at the hospital with us, so that we can see where she’ll give birth and meet some of the staff. In addition, she’s also asked that I be with her in the delivery room, which means a lot to me. I was clear with her that if she changes her mind, it’s COMPLETELY ok, and I don’t want her to feel pressured to have me in there. For now, that’s the plan, but I fully recognize that could change in an instant and just plan to play it by ear.
So…we’re 133 days (give or take) away from being parents. It’s a crazy feeling, but we’re so excited!
Recently I posted about my newest hobby, quilting. I can’t believe I have waited this long to try it, it’s so much fun! Plus, all the fabulous fabrics out there really allow you to make something special and completely unique.
This is the “boy” version of the quilt that I already posted, that we’ll use for the baby once we adopt. Since we’re not sure on sex, I’ve made a boy and a girl quilt, and then I can donate the one we don’t end up using. They’re both made from the Jelly Roll Jam quilt pattern from Fat Quarter Shop, and these quilts are a BLAST to make!
I haven’t had a chance to back this quilt yet, and do the machine quilting, but that is my plan for the weekend. I’m excited to get it finished, because I’ve already ordered more fabric for some holiday projects from Fat Quarter Shop, and really want to get started on them! Hopefully, in the next few months, I’ll be able to tell you all which quilt we’re using, which will be really exciting!!
Thanks for hanging in there with us during this journey. Your comments, prayers, and support are so appreciated.
We’re a little over four months in our wait for a match. I feel like time has been flying, but that’s probably because we’ve been trying to keep busy this summer. We’ve been traveling for fun, and I’ve also been traveling for work, plus we’ve been working on the house continuously. The basement is nearly completed, and we’ll soon start working on the nursery furniture!
I still struggle with the wait a lot. I know nothing will make it go faster, that this is just the process, but it’s hard at times. I just try to keep things in perspective, that everything will happen in the time it’s supposed to, and while we wait J and I can focus on our marriage and getting everything ready for the little one!
In my last post, I talked about how I was planning on making a few baby quilts for when we’re finally matched and bring home our baby. I decided to make a “girl” and a “boy” quilt, and then I can donate whichever one we don’t end up needing. Since this was my first quilt, I really wanted something simple and easy to do, and I found a really neat pattern from Fat Quarter Shop, called Jelly Roll Jam. There’s even a YouTube tutorial!
So, over the past 10 days, I’ve been frantically waiting for my second jelly roll of fabric to arrive (I wanted to mix and match from two different rolls, but didn’t realize this until after getting my first jelly roll in the mail). Once it showed up, it was time to get quilting! All in all, I probably put in around 10 hours, from start to finish, and I am really happy with how this first quilt turned out! I machine quilted it and used my sewing machine to bind it as well (who has time for hand sewing?!), and I can’t wait to throw it in the wash a few times to really soften it up!
The “Boy” quilt is next…I’m excited to see how it turns out as well!